We all make mistakes—it’s an inevitable part of life. Whether in our personal or professional journeys, no one is immune to stumbling. But here’s the key: mistakes are not the end; they’re often the beginning of something better, stronger, and wiser.

After more than two decades in business, producing luxury events and weddings globally, I’ve faced my fair share of obstacles. From financial setbacks and personal tragedies to moments where I wasn’t sure how I’d make it through, challenges became part of our journey. But it’s these moments that will shape you into who you are today.

One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned is that no matter how much you plan, life will throw curveballs. You can be on top of your game one day, and the next, everything changes. I’ve dealt with floods wiping out major venues, illness in my family, dealing with hackers, and supporting other business owners through tough times. But in every crisis, I found strength I didn’t know I had. Instead of turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms, I adopted new habits that made me stronger.

Early in my career, I took every rejection personally. But over time, I realized that ‘no’ wasn’t a failure—it was redirection. Every setback prepared me for the next challenge, and I became more resilient, determined, and focused. The journey, it turns out, matters just as much as the destination.

A major turning point came when I decided to shift my focus. Known for my luxury event production work, I felt drawn toward something deeper. I wanted to help others create meaningful careers through education, speaking, and storytelling. So, I launched a content company, helping others tell impactful stories through video and social media. This shift wasn’t easy, but it aligned with my passion and opened doors to new opportunities.

One thing I’ve come to understand is that people need to feel their own pain before they are willing to change. You can’t force growth on someone. As women, we often feel like we have to do it all—be the caregivers, the breadwinners, the problem solvers. But it’s critical that we make self-care a priority, too.

I’ve learned that money and material success don’t define you. I’ve seen how both having and losing money can impact your life, but money is just a tool. It’s not who you are. What defines you is how you handle life’s challenges—your resilience, your adaptability, and your ability to learn from failure.

For a long time, I tried to control every outcome, but I eventually realized that real strength comes from being willing to fail, learn, and get back up. As women, we need to let go of the pressure to be perfect. Perfection isn’t the goal—growth is. When we give ourselves permission to make mistakes, we open the door to becoming better versions of ourselves.

In my career, I’ve experienced incredible highs and crushing lows. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Don’t be afraid to fail. Because in every failure, there’s a lesson, and in every lesson, there’s an opportunity to grow. You are capable of so much more than you realize, and the only thing standing between you and success is your willingness to keep going, even when things get tough.

So, embrace your mistakes. Learn from them. Use them as stepping stones to build the life you truly want. If I’ve learned anything over the past two decades, it’s that success is not about never falling—it’s about always getting back up.

October 16, 2024, is a big deal for women and their financial independence. It marks 50 years since the passage of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act (ECOA) in 1974. Before this law, women were often denied access to credit simply because of their gender—even if they had good financial standing. Imagine that. You could be earning a solid income, but still need a male co-signer to get a credit card or a loan.

The ECOA changed all of that, making it illegal for creditors to discriminate based on gender or marital status. It gave women the right to open credit cards, take out loans, and establish financial independence—on their own terms. This wasn’t just about money; it was about empowerment and having control over your own future.

As we approach this milestone, it’s a reminder of how far we’ve come in the fight for financial rights, but it also highlights how much work we still need to do to ensure financial equity for all women.

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